Intro:

Smoking weed can be a fun solo or group activity in the right setting. When it comes to solo smoking, you’re able to do whatever you please without having to adapt to others. On the other hand, a group setting means following the unspoken (and spoken) rules of smoking weed for the best experience. We’ve broken down everything you need to know below so that you don’t make a wrong move the next time you are invited or host a hangout.

1. Rolling It = Lighting It

Starting at the beginning, this is one of the simplest etiquette rules. Whoever rolls the joint or otherwise prepares the weed is given first dibs on reaping the rewards. Imagine a friend preparing a four-course meal for you and then forcing them to eat last! If not downright unethical, it’s a fairly rude practice.

2. Pass In Order

Unless someone makes it clear they want to skip their turn or a round, don’t haphazardly pass the weed. This paves the way for someone to be left out or for uneven distribution. Whether you begin clockwise or counterclockwise, follow that rotation from start to finish.

3. Puff, Puff, Pass

Just like you’ll want to pass in a logical rotation, you’ll also want to keep an even amount of time for each person. General rules amongst the community indicate a puff, puff, pass is proper, but your group can adapt accordingly. This helps to keep with even portioning and avoids one person taking all they can while someone at the other end gets nothing.

4. Sharing

If you’re in a group and multiple people have brought supplies, it’s fair to share what’s been brought. This way, everyone gets to experience everything evenly and embrace the community part of being together. The phrase “give and take” is fitting in this case. Within this, don’t consistently show up with nothing to offer. You may find yourself ostracized from the group if you only ever take and never give.

5. Pay Your Way

Not bringing supplies to a session? Throw in some cash instead. It’s a form of common courtesy to offer up coverage when it comes to sharing supplies. If you can’t BYO, then give the host or whoever brought the products an amount you think is fair. No one likes a moocher, and while you may be able to get by a few times, repeated freebies might put you on the do-not-invite list. Luckily, you can find ways to smoke without breaking the bank. Check out Veriheal’s page for a breakdown.

6. Sanitation Is Important

Not necessarily as crucial when you’re smoking on your own is remaining sanitary. However, it’s important in all situations. The thing is that it’s never okay to be drooling all over any pieces being used. Whether it be a shared joint, bong, or whatever… don’t leave more of a trace than you need to.

7. Never Show Up Sick

If you’re heading for a get-together, knowing that you’re sick, then prepare to never be invited again. Unless you’re keeping your distance and completely consuming separate from everyone else, just don’t go. No one wants to become sick from what was supposed to be a fun get-together. Be courteous and stay home!

8. Honor Thy Host

Whoever is offering up their property for a smoke session has the final say over the rules. If the host says do not put your feet on the table, do not. If they say for everyone to pack up and go because they’re not feeling it anymore, go. Going against the host is a big no-no and can lead to exclusion the next time everyone gets together. Even brushing up on basic house guest tips can help.

9. Good Conversation

Okay, this one isn’t quite a rule as much as it is a suggestion. No one wants to listen to someone drown on and on about an annoying coworker during a time that is supposed to be somewhat peaceful. You definitely don’t need to get philosophical when smoking with friends, but it should be something that everyone can remain engaged with. If you notice everyone zoning out when you speak, try not to take it too personally and try switching up the convo.

Conclusion

There is no official rulebook for smoking weed, but there are general guidelines and unspoken etiquette. Oftentimes, groups will set their own sort of standards based on their unique wants and needs. While this list can help guide you, be sure to remain receptive to what you feel and like, as well as your go-to group’s wants and needs.